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Sunday, December 21, 2008

God should have invented a way to temporarily freeze time - for Moms to use

Christmas has come on a bit faster than I was hoping. I did manage to figure out why the season took me by surprise though. My parents come for Christmas every year (and are here for between 6 weeks and 5 months one year!), and this year they were going to come for Thanksgiving and stay until early Jan before going back home. My dad has been working on a truck - completely rebuilding it over the last 6 months - and he didn't finish until last week. They came up as quickly as they could after that, but it still put them getting in late on Dec 16th. I had in my mind that they would get up here, we'd have a few days to get settled in, do some cleaning, then break out the Christmas decor, take the family picture (my mom would be photographer to save us the $ going into a studio) and get copies of the picture for the Christmas cards and then finish the extended family Christmas gifts and any shopping. Well, when I knew they were going to be late, I couldn't manage to readjust my thinking on the rest of my holiday preparations. We have been doing things exactly how I was thinking, but we are about 2-3 weeks late. I have never been good about sending Christmas gifts off on time, but I try to get things before the end of the year and there are a few people that I like to get by Christmas. At this rate we are looking at going well into Jan before I have it all ready.

So that this doesn't happen again, for next year I am putting together an Advent/Christmas binder with a calendar and To Do list written in. Then the binder gets set with the Christmas stuff, but not packed in it. I would love to do one for Lent as well, but I'm thinking not this year. We'll see. I am great at things like making up a binder, but not-so-good at implementing what I have in the binder - though having a To Do list with due dates should help there.

Back to Christmas plans for this year, I also think I am procrastinating because I am nervous about what I plan to send to family for gifts. Most of my family is not Catholic or at least not really practicing, and my big idea was to send a painting or picture of a saint on something sturdy like a wood backing. The idea is to send the nice picture with the Saint's life story, a letter explaining why I chose that saint for them, and how and why saints fit into the Catholic faith. I started with a list of about 25 people which became about 35 and then I went through and found saints for almost all of them. Now I have to find pictures to print because there is not enough time to paint or draw pictures. I plan to use a glossy spray to protect the pictures once they are glued to the wood or whatever I manage to find that will make them more lasting than a piece of paper. I really should do a test page to make sure my grand scheme will work out. I keep getting distracted with all the cleaning, preparations, kids needs, etc. I am nervous about backlash too. Hopefully most of them will think I am a little more nutty than they originally thought and will not get upset. I think that is the main reason I wasn't working on this months ago when I had the idea and knew it would take a long time to get it together. Part of me wants to put it off until next year, but I know I will end up in the same situation next year with procrastinating. Plus, I'm sure I will find another great idea for next year. Best I get back to work on it with the few minutes of peace I have.


On a totally unrelated topic, we have been fighting mice! My housekeeping skills have improved since we moved (which is not saying a whole lot), yet at the other house we never had rodents or pests of any kind! Here we get ants in the spring, summer and fall, flying critters in the summer (one of the disadvantages of having no screens) as well as giant spiders in the basement, and now mice for the fall and winter. I couldn't bring myself to harm them at first and I still cannot handle the dead bodies nor the thought of killing them, but I relented and put out the poison. Jeff has been bugging me about putting out poison for months (our problems began in late Aug-early Sept), and I finally gave in once the mice got into the heater ducts. Before that we would let a stray cat in the neighborhood in to hunt, but he failed to get them all and then the mice got into the ducts forcing me to turn the heat off and that was it. I am very allergic to anything with fur, so I don't do well with mice running around, esp in a place where air will be circulated - I have been sneezing as if it is spring all fall. Of course, within a week of turning the heat off, we were hit with the coldest weather we've had in a long time. I think it was this cold a few years ago when we had ice, but instead of ice we have snow! I love the snow and will try to get some pics of the kids playing in it up, but it made the heater situation rather dire. We had poison in for about a week, then vacummed the best we could and changed the filter, removed a couple dead bodies and I installed metal screen material in all the vents and sealed the holes. So far so good on keeping the critters out of the heater, but now we have at least one mouse in the house. Fortunately where it is hiding I was able to drop a block of poison without fear of the baby getting it, but I don't know where it is getting its food and water (though arguably there is enough around the kitchen table where it hides). I just hope that one of these mornings I will not be greeted with rustling and chewing noises, then I can feel bad about taking the life of one of God's creatures and have Jeff get rid of the body. Of course we still have mice in the basement that need to be dealt with too, and I think we will go back to the traps for those. That and cleaning anyway. I will try and keep up with the Great Mouse Hunt as the nightmare continues.

Thursday, December 4, 2008

A reason to love unschooling...

Damien and Ariana turned 10 and 12 this last week, and from Grandma Dawn they got a card with the same number of dollars as years they have been born. They were both very excited and counted out all the money they have stashed around the house (theoretically all the money should be in their wallets, but they are kids), including missing money that they hope to find someday. Damien then asked, "who is on the 10-dollar bill?" this sent him off to the picture of all the presidents to see if he could find the mystery man. I commented that I didn't think "he" was a president as did Ariana, and once Damien had satisfied himself that we were right he moved on to the next step in solving the mystery. I asked him who the man was and Damien sounded out Hamilton, so then we looked him up online and read all about him for almost 20 minutes. My deficient public school education left me with no knowledge of Hamilton, but over the course of trying out different styles of homeschooling, I had seen a documentary and had a little knowledge of who Hamilton was. Damien and I talked about Hamilton's character quite a bit, since he was a rather impulsive man who could have spared himself a lot of suffering if he had learned to control his temper. Damien found it particularly interesting that Hamilton's oldest son died in a duel at the young age of 19. Since Damien struggles with impulsive outbursts, it is interesting that he honed in on that aspect of Hamilton. Our discussion led us to talking about the infamous duel with Aaron Burr, Mr. Burr's character and whether Hamilton really missed on purpose or not. With unschooling you never know where a "lesson" will take you, and I love the freedom to go wherever the kids lead. If I had planned this lesson (or if I hadn't managed to shed most my teacher training), I would have focussed on learning more about the history of money esp since Hamilton was Treasury Secretary, and maybe gotten into who the other men were on the bills, but I don't think I ever would have thought to talk about the good and bad aspects of Hamilton's character.